DEAR MISS MANNERS: We’ve been friends with a couple for over 20 years. Our son grew up with theirs — elementary through high school, after-school sports, etc.
Their son is getting married out of town. It’s drivable for us, but would mean a flight and hotel for our son and his wife.
Our friends just informed us that while we are invited, our son and his wife are not, “due to cost.”
Our son will be hurt knowing that we, who are capable of giving a generous gift, are invited, but he and his wife, who are scraping by (he